I'm always happy to share good sound sensible wisdom from other relationship experts.
Alisa Bowman (@alisabow) is a good example.
I saw this on her blog and thought you might find it useful. If you comment over there, tell her I sent you!
She hates when he initiates sex
Q: Whenever my husband holds my hand, cuddles, or touches me in any way, I feel uncomfortable. Every time he touches me, it seems like he wants sex. I might be watching a TV program and he will start [more]