Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson are both life partners and relationship experts. I often use their theories and practice in my work with couples.
So I had a little chuckle when reading their blog today.
Let me know if this rings true for you?
After all, no-one will get our communications correctly if all they have to go on is assumptions and mind-reading. It's up to us to be clear - even when doing so, means revealing just how tempting it can be to "kick out" at someone we love!
You may be surprised to find that this is not Peter Pearson
speaking. No, I am the humble guest writer, his daughter Molly.
the two of us that end with "man, there's gotta be a lesson in
there somewhere." This time is no different. But since in this
situation, I'm the offender, he entreated me to write it in
exchange for exonerating my wrong. [more]